First things first—don’t put your registry directly on your invitation. Your invitation should be all about your celebration! If you have a registry (or two or three), you can add it to your Evite event so your guests can easily find it if they wish to send you a gift. You can also add a wedding/honeymoon crowdfunding to your Evite event as well! Some couples opt to include a link to their wedding website right on their wedding invitation for guests to learn more about their wedding. If you want to include your wedding website on your Evite event without adding it right to the invitation, you can include it in your Event Details under “Note from Host.” 

We're huge fans of personalizing wedding invitations and keeping the tone true to who you are as a couple. However, this is one part that should be fairly standard. 

1. Use proper titles—"Mr.", "Mrs.", "Ms.", and "Dr."—on the invitation (guests under the age of 18 can be addressed by their first and last names).
2. Use your guests' full names. If they go by a nickname/preferred name, it's fine to use that, but when in doubt, spell it all out.
3. If you're allowing plus-ones and don't know the name of your guest's plus-one, write their name and "and Guest" when addressing them (ex. John Smith and Guest). This makes it clear that you're happy to welcome their plus-one to the wedding!
4. Be consistent in how you address people. For example, if you use "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith" on the outer envelope, use "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith" on the inside as well. Of course, if you use Evite, we'll take care of that for you automatically!
5. Spell their names correctly. Seriously. Double-check all of the names and use Google if you need to!

While it's expected that guests will RSVP as soon as possible after receiving your invitation, the reality is that they may need some time to ensure that they can take time off, don't have any conflicting plans, etc. Include an RSVP deadline on the invitation so they know how much time they have to confirm their attendance.

RSVP deadlines can be 2–4 weeks before the wedding date to give you enough time to finalize the guest list and make any necessary arrangements with vendors. However, for destination weddings or weddings that may require travel arrangements, requesting RSVPs 2–3 months before the wedding is recommended. With flights, hotels and even passports potentially in play, it's important for both you and your guests to commit to an RSVP well in advance to avoid any issues before the big day.

Traditionally, wedding invitations are sent out 6–8 weeks before the wedding date to give guests enough time to plan and make travel arrangements if necessary. However, if you are having a destination wedding, a wedding during peak travel times like the summer or holidays, or if many of your guests will be coming from out of town, consider sending your invitations out around 3–4 months before the wedding date. Our advice: send out save-the-dates before your wedding invitations! That way, even if you don't have all of the details to share with your intended wedding guests, you can let them know the date and possibly even where the wedding will take place so they can start planning.

Wedding registries are still very common, but more and more couples are opting for "no gift" wedding celebrations. While it seems like just saying "No gifts, please," should be fine, it does still feel awkward, especially for older family members who wouldn't dream of not giving something. If you would prefer that your guests not bring gifts to your wedding, there are a few ways you can communicate this politely and clearly:

1. Use positive language: Instead of saying "no gifts," try to phrase your request in a positive way, such as, "Your presence is the only gift we need."
2. Include a note in your invite: You can include a short note in your wedding invitation, such as "Your presence is our gift. Please, no gifts.” or "Your company is the only present we desire. Please, no gifts."
3. Create a wedding website: Consider creating a wedding website where you can communicate your request for no gifts in more detail. You can include a section on your website that explains why you don't want gifts and suggests alternative ways for guests to celebrate your wedding, such as making a donation to a charity.
4. Tell your family and wedding party: Let your family and wedding party know that you are not expecting gifts so that they can help communicate this to other guests.

It's important to remember that some guests may still want to bring a gift, even if you have requested otherwise. In this case, graciously accept the gift and express your appreciation for their thoughtfulness.

When it comes to suggesting a honeymoon fund or charitable donation in lieu of traditional wedding gifts, it's important to be tactful and respectful of your guests' wishes. Here are some tips for making this suggestion in a polite and thoughtful way:

1. Use positive language: Instead of framing your request as a restriction, use positive language that emphasizes the experience you want to have, such as "We're excited to start our life together and are looking forward to creating memories on our honeymoon."
2. Explain why you prefer donations: Be open and honest about why you are suggesting a charitable donation, such as "We have been blessed with everything we need, and we would like to use this opportunity to give back to those in need."
3. Offer a choice: Give your guests a choice between contributing to your honeymoon fund or donating to a charity that you support. This way, they can choose the option that feels most meaningful to them.
4. Make it easy: Provide clear instructions on how guests can make a donation, whether it's through a website, an app, or by mail. This will help ensure that the process is simple and stress-free for everyone.
5. Be grateful: Express your appreciation for any contributions that your guests make, whether it's a financial donation or simply their presence on your wedding day.

Remember, it's important to be respectful of your guests' wishes and to understand that some may still prefer to give a traditional wedding gift. By making a polite and thoughtful suggestion, you can help guide your guests toward the option that feels most meaningful to you as a couple.

The decision of who to invite with a plus-one to a wedding can vary depending on the specific circumstances of the wedding, such as the size of the guest list, the budget, and the relationship between the couple and their guests. However, here are some general guidelines that can help determine who should receive a plus-one invitation:

1. Married or engaged couples: It's customary to invite married or engaged couples together, even if you haven't met their partner. This includes couples who are in a committed long-term relationship.
2. Wedding party members: If you have asked someone to be a member of your wedding party, it's generally expected that they will receive a plus-one invitation, regardless of their relationship status.
3. Single guests: If you have single guests attending your wedding, it's generally courteous to offer them a plus-one, especially if they won't know many other guests at the wedding.
4. Out-of-town guests: If you have guests traveling from out of town to attend your wedding, it can be considerate to offer them a plus-one to make their trip more enjoyable.
5. Budget and venue limitations: If you are working within a tight budget or have limited space at your venue, you may need to limit plus-one invitations to only those who are in committed relationships or who are part of your wedding party.

Ultimately, the decision of who to invite with a plus-one is up to the couple, and there are no hard and fast rules. However, it's important to consider the feelings and comfort of your guests when making these decisions.

Yes, there are several polite ways to communicate that the wedding is adults-only on the wedding invitation. Here are a few suggestions:

1. Include the names of the guests on the invitation: By addressing the invitation only to the adults invited, you can make it clear that children are not invited.
2. Use clear language: You can be straightforward and use clear language to indicate that the wedding is adults-only, such as "Adult reception to follow." or "We respectfully request no children."
3. Offer a reason: You can explain the reason for the adults-only policy, such as "Due to limited space, we are unable to accommodate children."
4. Mention childcare options: If you have arranged for childcare at the wedding venue or nearby, you can include this information on the invitation as an option for parents who may need it.
5. Follow up with a personal conversation: If you have close friends or family members with children, consider having a personal conversation with them to explain your wishes and offer your apologies.

It's important to remember that some guests may be disappointed or inconvenienced by an adults-only policy, so take care to handle the situation with sensitivity and respect. By communicating your wishes clearly and offering a reason for your decision, you can help ensure that everyone is on the same page and can enjoy the wedding celebration.